Secret to long-term relationships

Relationships are the greatest blessings of GOD for human beings in this World. As Aristotle said “man is a social animal”. So no one can deny the value and importance of the relationships. Survival of life, for the satisfaction of feelings and emotions, human needs relationships.

But unfortunately, in present age human preferences have been changed and distances are increasing in relationships day by day. Cause of this tragedy, everyone is suffering from depression, frustration and metal stress in society. These elements are becoming the cause of social disorders.

Here we will discuss or share some secret to long-term relationships. Firstly Keep your relationship based on truth and avoid lying. Secondly, Trust each other’s and do not try to cheat. Because doubt licks the relations like termites.

It is necessary to build the good relations or ties that communicate and share everything of life. Express the feelings or emotions are very important for human being.  Do not hide the secrets from your partner or loved one. Share all the happiness, pleasures, grieves and worries of life. It does not create jealousy and envy.

Learn to tolerate or bear for maintain the long term relations. Anger is the enemy of common sense, so do not take any decision in furious mood. Because it may become cause to break the relations and man losses his lovers or good friends. Compromise is a best way for good ties or relations.

In this age, man is become the slave of time. He is too much busy in his daily affairs and has no time for family or friends. Many events and beautiful moments are missed for the hurries of life. So this situation creates many misunderstandings in a relation and become a cause to break it. Thus it is necessary to spend much time with families and friends. Arrange a party or picnic at some place, share the feelings and capture those moments in golden memories.

Love is the best key to build a long-term relation. Love can changed the life and win the hearts without any war. No one can deny the power of love. Therefore it is necessary to express your love with your partner, family or friends and realize them how much you love them.

Transfer the gifts, to maintain the beauty of love. Gift is the best source to express the love and affection. Price does not matter a pen, notebook, or a flower even a sweet smile on the name of gift, heals all the pains of life.

Relations are like rainbow colours in human life which increase the grace or beauty of life. Under the umbrella of patience, love, care, compromise, respect, honesty, and truth, beauty of the long-term relations can be saved from the sunshine or storm of the world. A person can find the long-term relations to follow all the secrets and pay his duties. As the last Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) said,

“The best of you is he who is best to his family, and I am the best among you to my family.”


Relations are the beauty and grace of human life. To build up the long terms relation love, truth and trust are the secret codes. Relations are blessings of the GOD in this world so cares this precious treasure.

The writer is a journalist based in Lahore who works for City42 and The Lahore Times.


The views expressed in this article are those of the author and not necessarily those of The Lahore Times.

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